Oh I forgot to tell you all the upshot of Wilma’s IEP meeting and follow up conversations……. she’s not in a special ed class. She’s no longer REALLY in the mainstream classroom. She’s not sent off to an autism school. They’re bending over backwards to create a schedule for her based on her needs. The resource room and the intervention specialist (who works with first and second graders also) is her home base. As behavior permits, she is brought into the mainstream classroom with an aide for 50% to 85% of every day. She gets a LOT of individual attention (some of it from the occupational therapist which is interesting because I had been toying with the idea of begging for more OT…… hey!) and over the past few weeks since this new program has been initiated, her behavior at school has gotten MUCH MUCH better. She earns the right to go be with the group and see her friends…. and the bulk of her academic work is done in very small groups without the overwhelming atmosphere. Before she was being removed from the group when she was disruptive. NOW she works well one on one or in small groups and then GETS to re-enter the classroom for part of each day. She does all specials (art, gym, music, library, lunch, snack) with her class. Rest time she does in the resource room because everyone else was resting and she was up at the computer reading over the teacher’s shoulder (poor teacher was constantly emailing me!).
Additionally I won the FBA argument. I have a meeting on January 10th to sign the paperwork to get an FBA in place for her. SO WHAT if her behavior has improved over the past few weeks. LONG TERM, it’s gotten much worse from preschool to kindergarten. I need a paper trail NOW to show that we’re doing all we can to keep her mainstreamed because things are only going to get harder once the first, second, third grade bullying starts. Thankfully, there has been NO kindergarten bullying (yet?!).
Here comes winter break. Two weeks of not being able to travel with them, not being able to take them anywhere by myself, not being able to move a load of laundry without Fred biting Wilma as soon as she ticks him off. I’ve changed my meds. I’ve changed Wilma’s meds. I’m armed with lots of books, toys and games. Let the fun begin.