Every night I put the kids to bed. Every night I go back into both rooms to change diapers. Every #$%#$% night. They’re 6 and a half years old. Our entire upstairs smells like a zoo.
Fred, I’m not as worried—– He’s well over 90% toilet trained during the day and if I simply forced him to TRY to poop each night before bed rather than just ask him if he has to, he’ll stop waiting until his night-time pullup to do his business. So from now on, watch out Fred, mommy is going to make you TRY each night before bed. Won’t that be fun?
Wilma’s next GI appointment is tomorrow. She’s 6 and a half and the only 3 times in her life that her poop ever went into the toilet is after her 3 enemas (pre xray and pre procedure). She’s had xrays and a manometry so far and though the MUSCLES are working, it’s clear that something else isn’t (nerve endings? communication from that part of the body to the brain?). Her typical poop schedule is 3-4 small poops per day rather than one large one. The GI doc has been saying it’s constipation and we just need to get her pooping more often so that her muscles can retrain to feel the urge. Everytime he has her do a cleanout, she poops 15-17 times per day for 4 days in a row (meaning she misses school and I get kicked in the face a lot— she hates being changed). We’re all much happier when she poops ONLY 3-5 times per day. Clearly, he’s wrong. She might be constipated, but so what— there’s something else happening here with the nerve endings or brain communication. When she fell and needed stitches she didn’t feel the pain. She doesn’t feel pain or hot/cold like other kids. My plan for tomorrow is to ask about a spinal MRI. If he tells us just to do another cleanout, he’s done and he’ll be lucky if I don’t beat him up. She IS hypotonic and is late on all gross milestones, but I haven’t met another mom of a hypotonic kid yet who can’t toilet train by this age unless there is something more severe.
We don’t think it’s Hirschsprung’s. Now the possibilities include a mild form of cerebral palsy, a mild form of spina bifida, CIPA or another HSAN, Celiac, and a bunch of other things my helpful facebook friends have told me to pursue. When these kids were diagnosed with autism, I had no idea that nailing down a PHYSICAL problem would be even more complicated than the constant med changes/ IEPs of autism!