Musings from an Orthodox Jewish work at home mom of twins with Autism Spectrum Disorders.

Suspension

Fred got suspended for reaching into a (male) student’s pants and underpants to touch him inappropriately.  Just in the past few weeks, he looked up inappropriate videos on the school computer, got suspended for violence, and now this thing that’s just……. *sigh*—– yeah it’s bad. The roller coaster of these kids and their issues is intense.  I cannot believe how FAR he went this time.

Suspended kid really feels suspension is a complete deterrent. (not) He was home without his sister. Even though I’m not taking him anywhere fun  (yup, he asked), and even though he doesn’t get to stim on the ipad/tv etc because I’m a mean mom who is making him play outside and draw, he’s pretty much in 7th heaven—- a house without Wilma. Want to give my kid a consequence that makes sense? Send him to Wilma’s school for the day and make him be with her all day long.

So tomorrow will be his third day of suspension in the past month.  School went straight to suspension, no stopping at FBA/BIP even though his last one was two years ago.  On the one hand, they need to show the other students/ parents that even though Fred has special needs he gets CONSEQUENCES for his actions.  On the other hand, suspension is not a deterrent.  If you ask him WHY he got suspended, he says “for screaming”.  ugh.  Emergency IEP meeting on the 26th.  I’ll be asking for a one on one aide.  Spoiler alert:  I’ll be told no.

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